Sure but socially competent people don’t dominate a conversation with complaints, it bums everyone out. And meeting in real life means these are people who you’d have a high chance of running into again, so folks tend to behave better.

People online pick up others’ complaints, then parrot them into every other relevant thread to farm internet points.

Internet people’s favorite thing to do is complain, so get off the internet and go join a club or a social group. Otherwise you’ll be forever doom scrolling through bad news and comments complaining about it.