I have been looking at Garage. Not sure if you can set certain buckets to different mount points or whatever but it does seem to be easier to setup and update which would make running two instances much less painful.

Thanks, this looks like a possible solution. I will have to dive into it to see if it will work the way I need it to.

You could probably set up a cloudflare tunnel. I forget what they call it. I think technically sending video through it is against their TOS but if just a few friends and family are using it I doubt you will hit their naughty list.

Disable passwords and use public private keys and don’t worry about it