• djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    25 days ago

    didn’t a lot of women end up leaving tinder because it’s gained reputation as exclusively a hook-up app, leaving mostly bots? Is this meme just a v old repost? I believe Hinge is the app de jour, but I might be out of date.

    • Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works
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      25 days ago

      A combo of Hinge and Bumble, apparently. Seems to be working for my buddy anyway (to the absolute fury of the people he complains to re: the number of matches/dates he gets because they don’t meet his marriage standard, which is high)

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    25 days ago

    Planning on making an account too because I have no idea how to interact with people outside. Hope to find at least someone I understand with.

    • Verdorrterpunkt@feddit.org
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      25 days ago

      Have you ever applied for jobs? I think dating apps are somehwat comparably demotivating. Just be sure you can handle it.

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      25 days ago

      Try if you must, but as a guy after 10 years on and off these dating sites I just completely gave up. It’s like a constant attack on your self worth and for me I just ended up feeling absolutely pathetic and worthless. I’m still lonely but I feel better than getting ignored constantly and literally only getting likes/messages from bots that want to scam you.

      In that 10 year span I went on maybe 6 dates total…